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August 28, 2007

A Family Game

Anny and I have not taken a true road trip in many years. A trip now and then to the beach is about as far as we drive. (We do a lot of flying, but this game is not a flying game....)

Our silly little game has been ongoing since a trip about six months ago. Our trip was not really even that long, just up to Columbia. Our game is...

Should that car be yellow?

We each drive 10+ miles to work on highways, so we see a LOT of cars everyday. Some cars look rediculous because of their tacky spoiler, some because there is a red door on a blue car.

Most often, though, we notice that people drive yellow cars that should never have been painted yellow.

Examples:
Any Minivan (never seen one, and it doesn't look like an option on the Odyssey)
Hyundai Accent
PT Cruiser (Especially the "Woody" version)

Don't get me wrong, I can apreciate a cool car in yellow. It has to be yellow-apropriate, though.
Examples: (8/19/07 - I had to break the links because of too much traffic from folks looking here for pics of these cars. Not an issue for the cars above....)
Ford Mustang
Ferrari
Corvette

You can start to get the picture. Yellow cars scream "Look at my cool car!" That just can't be done in a minivan, or most cars with four doors.

What other cars should be on the wrong list?
What others should be on the apropriate list?

More importantly, as we will make another drive to the beach this weekend, what kind of things do you do on road trips to pass time?

August 22, 2007

Greatest Feeling

I am a morning person by nature. I am only ever awake past 9 pm by nurture. Sometimes nurture is not even enough to keep me awake, but that's another post for another time. I am also an extrovert - so if you meet me in the morning, please accept my apologies. I really am that annoying sometimes!

Anny is a night owl by nature. She get's up in the morning as necessity for teaching. Apparently schools insist on having teachers available and at school when students are there. Oh well. Anny is an introvert. She needs her rest to work the whole day long when other people are involved.

Abby is still a baby. She is still figuring out her routine. She wakes up sometime between 3 and 4 in the morning to get a small snack and go back to sleep. This is the pain part of having an infant in the house.

The part that makes it all okay is when she goes from completely awake and fussy to completely limp and asleep on my shoulder. This morning I could feel all of her weight shift from tense and whiny to completely relaxed and cuddly.

I could (and have) fallen asleep to the thought that I make another human being that relaxed. I konw that it will change when she's older, so I will continue to savor it each time she does it now.

I can't wait to see what other things she will do to let me know she love's me as she grows into a little lady.

August 14, 2007

Starting a New Program at Church

I've gotten to the point of being truly annoyed by people that continue to whine about what the church (or any organization) can do for them, but always always stop short of being willing to step up and pitch in when it comes time to implement.

At my last congregation there was a need for unity between the two youth programs. Rather than complain about it, we got concerned parties together every other month to make sure that everything remained on the up and up for the good of the total ministry of our church, not abandoning the younger youth because they were not able to do things, and not to write off the older youth because they did not have compassion for the younger members. That worked.

That also brings me to our current project! I will be forthcoming in saying that Anny and I, though we work well together, have never had any urge to start a group from scratch. That is mostly due to Anny's introverted nature, and my wanting to make sure that she's happy. We are both so excited about putting together a ministry like this one, not just for us for for all involved, that we decided that I would torn up my planning side and she would turn her extroversion up a little.

So, our new project: a ministry for parents with children under the age of 5. It really stemmed from the fact that we have a group of folks that we know on an every-Sunday basis that we would like to get to know in a better context. We don't have many friends around where we live with kids (though one couple will be having theirs anytime now!) and don't want to hang out with parenting groups all the way up in Columbia.

In particular I'm peeved that any parent groups that I can find mention of in the greater DC area are aimed at moms OR dads, whichever is a StayAtHome. StayAtHome would be an awesome idea for either of us, but we have chosen paths that are not the money makers that we could be in, and we have acknowledged that as we have grown our life together. I want to do things as a family, not just a Dad group or a Mom group. I understand that both of those have value, but we really do work well together and want Abby to grow up knowing that.

Our problem with our Parents of Young Children group is that we don't have any curriculum or direction with what to do with our time. I have gotten one recommendation from an Educator freind, but it looks like the resource is out of print and I can't find it on Amazon.

So, my question/plea is: do you know of any good materials for gatherings of parents? It does not have to be church based necessarily, because I have never been good at following the pages I've been given and will adjust as needed anyway.

If you're a part of a group (inside or outside the church, it just happens to be our place of choice) of this nature, what sort of things do you do in your program time?

Any help would be great. If you don't want to post in the comment section, drop me an email at armonroe (at) gmail.com.

August 13, 2007

The Greatest Compliment Ever

I have gotten the greatest compliment that I can think of twice this weekend.

"You look like a father. It fits you so well!"

The truth is that we waited and worked long an hard for Abby to be a part of our family. I won't go into that here, but that's an important part of why I'm so excited to have her with us now. She really has made our house a home.

I have begun to take the 2 am feedings in preparation for the school year starting next week (for teachers like Anny). Do you know how little there is on TV between 2 and 4 am? When it was 1:00 there were still the LateLate shows on. I have been watching all of the Last Comic Standing episodes and deleting them off of the TiVo as I go along. I have secret desires to try out for the show one year. I know that I have funny stories, but does that translate to comedy? I doubt it.

From August 2007

Here's a picture of us chillin on Friday afternoon.

I'm glad that I get to be her daddy.

August 08, 2007

How do You Drive Traffic to your Website?

At my church we are trying to prepare for an onslaught of new employees at Fort Meade through Base Relocation efforts in the works. Some are hoping that new people in town will translate to more people in the seats on Sunday. Some do not share in that hope. "We're okay the way we are." (I hate that notion, but that's a different post for a different day.)

I fall into the camp of open-armed members that would love to have some new folks with us each week!

We are located close enough to the base that we should be able to attract attention, but I certainly can't find any! When I google phrases that I think should pop up our beloved church, I get others that are farther away.

Being that we're a medium sized church we don't do much in the way of advertising. The denomination is slow to perform in that area too, which is disapointing. I have seen the UCC and United Methodist advertisements and they get my attention every time. Jealous? Yes.

I know that I have some churchy folks that read my blog from time to time and so I pose this question:
How are you using the web, specifically, to bring in visitors?
What other types of advertising do you do?

One Year to the Day

One year until the Summer Olympics. All of the news outlets are making a big deal about it.

I'm more of a team sport fan, so the summer games are not fun for me.

Do you care about the summer games?

August 01, 2007

I Have a Hard Time with Art

I have only been to an art gallery on purpose once. I went there to meet up with friends, not necessarily to see the art. (I have been to art galleries because we were downtown and didn't want to walk the Mall.) The art was a nice sideshow. (A REALLY nice sideshow, it was Georgia O'Keefe's tour at the Natioanal Gallery of Art!)

It is often hard for me to see art as art.

Pottery - YES!
Paintings - YES!
Sculptures - Most of the time.
Masking Tape - Hell no!

If you have not heard about this story, you can see video HERE.

This to me is some boring, lazy guy spending way too much time and money in his house. It's like a rubber-band-ball. It hardly ever starts out as a RBB, but once you have a dozen or so in a ball, it becomes fun.

Not art.

Am I way off base to think that this guy is more of an idiot than an artist?